Sunday, February 13, 2011

Building Sexual Energy With Your Partner Through Simple Tantric Practices


Outline written by  Rev.Christie LaValley, RMT
***This is in no way is an ad for sex.  These are suggestions for your personal life, not for office visits.

Tantric Means: Transformation of Energy

3 Main Facts:          1.Men should not always ejaculate. This is "congenital Chi/ Jing."
                                    Men  have a limited  supply and it cannot be replaced.
                                2. Learn to breathe together. 
                                3. Learn to view lovemaking as a shared meditative state.

Important facts
a.      Bring additional sexual energy up to other Chakras.

b.     We are energy beings Water conducts energy-always make sure you are well
         lubed.  Massage is a great way for couples to ensure proper lubrication.

c.      Circulate breathing through your Chakras and your partner's chakras.  Pay
         special attention to your heart and your partner's heart.

d.     Not ejaculating helps in 3 ways.
         1.      Not losing vital energy/jing (essence)
         2.      Strengthen and tones from muscular exercise. Kegal Exercise for men
         3.      Vital energy is being aroused and since it is not being discharged
                   it can circulate  and  be re-absorbed through the body with you
                   and your partners breathing. It can be vital  in healing.

e.     Women lose jing during menstruation- Excessive blood loss is damaging. 
          Help her build her energy with breathing.

f.       Impotence is considered loss of too much jing.
         Taoist cure-  Have sex for 10 days with the same woman/energy without
         ejaculation. Relax without expectations of performance and feel the
         experience.  Woman should be on top.

g.      Prostate Health- We are now living longer and we have more casual sex.
          We as westerners believe ejaculation must occur during orgasms resulting
           in less jing and depleted energy.  Western doctors encourage more
           ejaculation as eastern  medicine  encourage  less.  Who is correct?


Information gathered from:  Excerpt from Subtle Energy:Awakening to the Unseen Forces in Our Lives by William Collinge, Ph.D., Warner Books, Inc.,1998 

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